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Is the point of your posts to make one happy?! Because they sure as hell make me happy and I'm here for it every time! Cheers to your quiet alternatives. Also I need to know your old teacher and I love her art! And I loved your first 2 paragraphs, so descriptive. Another one I use is Poshmark for good finds in clothing that have history.

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Apr 23, 2023Liked by Hilary Hattenbach

We've all benefited, Hilary, from you developing your own personal sense of style and brightening our lives with your color choices. Who needs the mean girls anyway - except for when Tina Fey writes a funny movie about them?

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Apr 23, 2023·edited Apr 23, 2023Liked by Hilary Hattenbach

This was an excellent essay! Your struggles as a young child mirror my own, especially when I went to an upscale private school for one year as a scholarship kid. Class is something no one wants to talk about, but it "quietly" dictates the way our society functions. I like your California mindset when it comes to fun / loud clothing. It seems like "preppy" styles are back for the New England / Northeast style hustlers. And to that I say nope, no thanks, not interested.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts!

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Apr 28, 2023Liked by Hilary Hattenbach

You have an incredible way of describing the people you've known! It makes me want to meet every single one, or just pay even more attention to everyone around me - which is lovely!

It seems that labels, not labels, labels, not labels is an ongoing cycle... Style over trends I think! I loved the insight into your style. :)

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Insightful. Entertaining. Meaningful. Thanks!

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Thank you for this, Hilary! The perfect thing to read on Earth Day weekend and a fun reminder that we’ve been upcycling with style for decades 💕

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Apr 23, 2023Liked by Hilary Hattenbach

My head is spinning with the ideas on upping my style and minimizing this horrible waste of resources all around us. Thanks Hilary for this multifaceted thoughtful post.

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Aww. Thanks, Doug! The movie is great, the real-life mean girls not so much. 😀

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